Parenting at three generations of Oei Family in “Oei Hui Lan” biography

Authors

  • Steffi Thanissa Halim Petra Christian University
  • Grace Febriana Ardiyanto Petra Christian University

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.33633/lite.v20i1.10328

Keywords:

parenting style, Oei Hui Lan, Chinese Indonesian

Abstract

Oei Hui Lan family was the richest family in Southeast Asia until 20th century, and belongs to the Chinese elite group, so they also have good connection with the western people which made Oei family’s parenting style different from other ordinary Chinese Indonesian families at their time. This makes the author interested in researching parenting styles in three generations of Oei family. The author uses library research method, namely the content analysis method to analyze the data. The data is taken from "Oei Hui Lan: Kisah Putri Sang Raja Gula dari Semarang" by Agnes Davonar. The results of the analysis are parenting style in the first generation is mostly the same as the traditional Chinese parenting style. In the second and third generations are starting to be influenced by western family parenting style. Also, the use of western parenting style from the first to the third generation is found increasing.

Author Biographies

Steffi Thanissa Halim, Petra Christian University

Steffi Thanissa Halim currently works as a lecturer at Chinese Department, Petra Christian University, Surabaya, Indonesia. Her research interests include Chinese language teaching and Chinese identity

Grace Febriana Ardiyanto, Petra Christian University

Grace Febriana Ardiyanto is a student at Chinese Language Program, Petra Christian University, Surabaya, Indonesia.

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2024-03-30

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Halim, S. T., & Ardiyanto, G. F. (2024). Parenting at three generations of Oei Family in “Oei Hui Lan” biography. LITE: Jurnal Bahasa, Sastra, Dan Budaya, 20(1), 46–62. https://doi.org/10.33633/lite.v20i1.10328

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